Speaking & Teaching

I have been privileged to have been asked to speak, teach, and deliver workshops at professional conferences as well as counseling and clinical psychology classes and college and university sex weeks on topics as varied as trans sexualities, sexual communication, ethical/consensual non-monogamies, out of control sexual behavior (OCSB), and histories of sexualities. If you’d like to have me speak or give a workshop to your practice, agency, hospital, college or university, graduate program, medical school, professional conference, retreat, sex positive group, dungeon, or feminist sex toy store, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Below is a list of a few workshops I’ve facilitated over the years. I’d of course love to develop new content tailored to your organization’s or group’s needs! 


For Professional Audiences

  • Re-Visioning Sex Therapy for Every Body

  • Nurturing Trans Erotic Embodiment

  • Ethical Curiosity: Dismantling the Entitlement to Know

  • Safety First? Embracing Mutual Entanglement and Solidarity

  • Being a Kink-Aware Provider

  • Gender Dysphoria Isn’t the Point: Centering Gender-Pleasure in Practice

  • Kissing and Telling: Myths, Metaphors, and Narratives of Sexualities

  • A Deep Dive into Muffing: An Intensive for Touch Professionals

Community-Facing Workshops

  • Banging Beyond the Binary: Trans Sex 101

  • Trans Fem Pleasure

  • Diving Deep into Muffing

  • Portals to Overwhelm: Exploring Psychological Edgeplay (w/ Empress Wu)

  • Got Milk? A Wet and Messy Introduction to Lactation Play

  • COVID-Cautious Kink

  • Energy Witchery: Deepening into Energy, Intention, and Emotion in Play

  • Embodying Sexual Communication

  • Nurturing Gender-Pleasure